Close your eyes and put yourself in this situation…

You’re out to dinner with your dearest friend at your favorite restaurant spot. The appetizer just arrived and you are about to devour it, ready to savor every bite as you’ve been waiting patiently all day for it. You bring your fork to your mouth, about to get what you so desperately have been awaiting, when your phone vibrates. You are aware that someone is calling you but you are given two choices…  Do you answer the phone, despite your current circumstance? Or, do you ignore it and return the call later? 

For some, the need to answer that call immediately is required. Maybe it’s FOMO. Maybe we were raised to do so. Maybe we are so connected to our phones we couldn’t imagine another option. For others (this is the camp I tend to fall into), we are okay with calling back. If it’s urgent, they’ll text, I’ve been known to say. Being fully present in the moment may be more important or, maybe we are just those people who don’t feel the phone buzzing in our purse. 

While there isn’t a right or wrong in this situation, when God calls, we should be prepared and willingly ready to answer.

Ring, Ring… God’s Calling

We’d all like to say when God calls, we answer… but it’s not as easy as picking up the phone during the middle of a night out. His callings aren’t always as direct and, if we’re being honest, discernment on identifying who the caller is isn’t… well… easy peasy. 

Before going much further into this topic, let’s get crystal clear on the difference between purpose and calling. 

Purpose

Your purpose is your overarching reason for existence. It’s usually general and broad and a lifelong journey you tackle to achieving it. And if you’d like greater clarity on how to uncover your purpose or navigate what it feels to change your purpose, check out our podcast episode on that very topic! 

Calling

Calling, however, is a bit different. It’s usually a specific task or role. It’s targeted and can change regularly. Think of a calling like a mission. God rings and he’s got a secret mission that only you can accomplish. This phase of your life He needs you to use your skills in one way but in another season, different strengths are needed for different reasons. 

Your purpose is your life’s internal compass. Your calling is that external pull you feel to do something only you can do. Is the difference clear as mud?! 

There are some things all of us are called to. 

We are called to follow Christ.

As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed him. (Matthew 4:18-20, NIV)

We are called to share. 

Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age. (Matthew 28:19-20)

We are called for purpose. 

As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:1-3)

We are called to service with the gifts we have. 

For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully. (Romans 12:4-8)

And yet, we all are specifically called. 

While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” So after they had fasted and prayed, they placed their hands on them and sent them off. (Acts 13:2-3)

That phone call God is making to us is to US specifically, so when it feels like a change… and a big one… know that it’s God ready to use our talents, gifts and circumstances for Him. Thank goodness we know that He has a plan, right?!

The Broken & Beautiful Podcast livestream, Change of Calling, highlights the feelings (worry and excitement and everything in between) that show up when we feel like the call we are getting from God is a bit out of left field. You mean you want me to do what?! But I’m comfortable here! (Surely we aren’t the only ones who’ve ever thought that!)

To help learn how we can embrace our change of calling from God, we looked to Priscilla’s story found primarily in Acts 18. Below are some Scripture verses that were the basis for the discussion. Also, here are a few other passages to explore: Romans 16:3-4, 1 Corinthians 16:19 and 2 Timothy 4:19.

There he met a Jew named Aquila, a native of Pontus, who had recently come from Italy with his wife Priscilla, because Claudius had ordered all Jews to leave Rome. Paul went to see them, and because he was a tentmaker as they were, he stayed and worked with them.

Acts 18:2-3

Paul stayed on in Corinth for some time. Then he left the brothers and sisters and sailed for Syria, accompanied by Priscilla and Aquila. Before he sailed, he had his hair cut off at Cenchreae because of a vow he had taken. They arrived at Ephesus, where Paul left Priscilla and Aquila. He himself went into the synagogue and reasoned with the Jews.

Acts 18:18-19

Meanwhile a Jew named Apollos, a native of Alexandria, came to Ephesus. He was a learned man, with a thorough knowledge of the Scriptures. He had been instructed in the way of the Lord, and he spoke with great fervor and taught about Jesus accurately, though he knew only the baptism of John. He began to speak boldly in the synagogue. When Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately.

Acts 18:24-26

So… what can we learn about change of callings by studying Priscilla’s story that models just that? Here are some of my favorite takeaways. 

  • Co-Workers in Ministry: Paul met Priscilla and her husband, Aquila, in Corinth in his second missionary journey. Both were already church leaders; in fact, Paul references them as co-workers in ministry! They were also tentmakers, too. 
  • A Heart of Hospitality: Paul stayed with them in their home for 18 months while he worked alongside them. Priscilla and Aquila tended to be very hospitable people, opening their homes up for Christians regularly. In fact, they had a church that met in their home! 
  • Open to Anything: When Paul’s mission took him to Ephesus, they went and carried out the work to grow the church there. In fact, I got the impression they were eager to go and do whatever the ministry needed. 

And, if you notice in most of Paul’s mention of the couple, Priscilla’s name comes first which may signify her strong role in their ministry. Who knows! Priscilla’s story leaves me with three practical ways we can look at changes in callings we may experience. 

Recognize Your Spiritual Gifts

God gave you strengths and one day He’s going to call on you to use them. Do you know what they are?! Here’s a link to one of many spiritual gifts tests you can take to give you some ideas! But honestly, if you just keep your eyes and ears open to hear what people notice in you and see how God is calling you, you will identify them for yourself. Your strengths, my friend, aren’t strengths by accident.

Callings Involve Commitment to Serve

God isn’t likely ringing you to invite you on a mission that only helps you. I mean… you don’t hear of callings that just have the called person benefit. Because it doesn’t work that way. Instead, God’s goal is to use us for His good. We are called to bring people into His Truth. Learning to discern if a calling is one from God or one of our own desires boils down to the realization that God’s calling will be to have you serve others in some way or another. 

God’s Got a Plan and You are In It

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28) God calls us to be a part of His larger plan and that plan has everyone’s best interest at heart. So when callings feel hard and uncomfortable, know that God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose. The end, my friend, will make sense and be good even if the middle of a calling may feel otherwise. 

Are you charged to uncover your calling or ready to embrace a change of calling?

Many of us go to school to learn skills to help us accomplish it or have mentors, parents or friends whom we look up to and turn to for guidance in fulfilling it. But what happens when you haven’t yet uncovered your calling? Or, possibly an even harder question to answer and one so many women face, what do we do when we feel like God’s calling us down a whole different path… one we haven’t planned for whatsoever? Let’s learn from Priscilla on how to be open and ready for God’s call to us.

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